Know what you’re going back for. Are you two on the same page? While you two may be soul mates, twin flames, life partners etc. , you still have a responsibility to raise your child / children to be healthy people.
If you know this ex is going to be a great partner that will help you raise your family with morals, love, structure, and disciple, go for it!
But if you know this person is still not mature enough to handle the responsibility, I’d encourage you to think twice about moving them in right off the bat. If you two love each other as strongly as I am picking up, you should be able to have a conversation and make a plan on how to do this in a healthy way.
If you don’t have kids with this person, it seems like you are having problems making a judgement on whether or not you should go back to your ex because while you are sure you love them, you aren’t sure if they’ve actually changed since the last time you two tried to be together.
Here’s the thing girl, you’re sprung! I know you may be trying to protect yourself from heartache but you’re already heartbroken trying to avoid this love.
My advice, walk through the fire babe. But take with you the lessons you learned the last time you went through. This love could be great, but you need to make sure you’re seeing what’s there and not what you wish to see.
Don’t be disillusioned, in either of these situations its going to take a lot of hard work to keep this connection strong and healthy. As long as you’re both willing to do the work, everything will be fine.